I love the Lord, because He has heard my voice and my supplications – Psalm 116:1
Why did the Psalmist say He loves the Lord? He said it because God first loved him by hearing him and paying attention to His requests. The truth is that our love does not come out of thin air but comes out of God’s love for us. In fact, the bible teaches that we love God because He first loved us (1 John 4:19). Therefore, if we want to love better, we must allow ourselves to be loved by God! Failure to allow God to love us makes the choice to love others very difficult. Another truth is that if we want to be loved, then we must show love; we cannot act selfishly and then expect love to flow our way. To love people effectively, we must know people and treat people the way they want ought to be treated. Still, we cannot give love if we do not have love. Since God is love, then the only way we can love effectively is to yield our lives to God. When we do, he changes our hearts, and our heart and actions start reflecting His love. For any of this to happen, we must consider and meditate upon how much God loves us and has loved us. Friend, everything changes once you truly internalize how much God loves you. Only then will you receive His love and only then will you be able to love effectively.
I am free to love others because God loves me